I hate drama. Specifically, boy drama.
I have something I would like to advise to you gals reading this. *clears throat* If you have guy friends, don't think that there's no chance in the world that one will like you. To make it more clear, don't flirt (or whatever you want to call it) with your guy friends thinking that you can do it without any consequences. If you have guy friends and there is no drama, then you are blessed.
I really hate that nowadays if you have a good friend who is of the opposite sex, then other people automatically assume that there is a romantic interest. Can't two people be best friends without adding that extra drama? It's like people WANT to make the two of you feel weird around each other.
I'll give a little itty bitty example. I have a really good guy friend. People, family even, think that I like him. No matter what I say, my family thinks that I'm lying. It's pretty stupid that my family thinks I would lie about something that stupid. They think that just because I feel comfortable around him and I hug him then I like him. -_- Two words. Stue pid.
People irritate me, and it seems to only get worse the older I get.
Sorry for rambling. I just needed to get some stuff out.
-Kirstin
I have something I would like to advise to you gals reading this. *clears throat* If you have guy friends, don't think that there's no chance in the world that one will like you. To make it more clear, don't flirt (or whatever you want to call it) with your guy friends thinking that you can do it without any consequences. If you have guy friends and there is no drama, then you are blessed.
I really hate that nowadays if you have a good friend who is of the opposite sex, then other people automatically assume that there is a romantic interest. Can't two people be best friends without adding that extra drama? It's like people WANT to make the two of you feel weird around each other.
I'll give a little itty bitty example. I have a really good guy friend. People, family even, think that I like him. No matter what I say, my family thinks that I'm lying. It's pretty stupid that my family thinks I would lie about something that stupid. They think that just because I feel comfortable around him and I hug him then I like him. -_- Two words. Stue pid.
People irritate me, and it seems to only get worse the older I get.
Sorry for rambling. I just needed to get some stuff out.
-Kirstin
Yes it is possible. I'm sorry sis. That's highly annoying and unfortunate. I was just teased by my family about something like that too. >.> I hope it gets better for ya.
ReplyDeleteI know the feeling. I have that problem sometimes, but it's just something you have to be careful with and make the best of. If the drama isn't coming from THAT person, I try not to worry about it. That's just my way of dealing with it. People get way into business that isn't theirs. I have tried living to please everyone and it just doesn't work that way.
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